1) It's sneaky AF and can be really misleading. Ex: bf has random girl in his top friends...only because he only snaps 2 people anyways and she gets added after she sends him a few in a row as she's partying and sending snaps to her whole list. Hello drama.
2) I really don't think regularly seeing selfies sent to you personally by other people is a healthy habit to have in a relationship, nor is it necessary.
3) We never really know what kinds of snaps our s/o is receiving, nor from whom, and more importantly, why? For some this can cause a lot of anxiety.
4) Our relationships suffer enough from all the other social media platforms, thanks.
5) Cherishing the time you're spending with your s/o is more important than snapchatting your dinner.