Why You Should Stop Taking Things Slow

I don't know how many times I've heard someone say "well I want to take things slow", which can have a lot of different meanings, but normally it means to not see the person they're dating too often and also to not hook up too early. Well here's why you should stop "taking things slow":

1) You're wasting your time. Why would you not want to see the person you're dating more than once a week? If anything you're just going to waste more time because it will take much longer to see if they're a good fit for you or not.

2) They may take it as you not being interested. Saying you want to take things slow could be seen as a cop-out, so this could ruin your chances if you're actually interested.

3) You're giving them a reason to keep talking to other people. If they see this as you not being very interested, then why wouldn't they keep talking to other people in order to find someone who is and SHOWS that they're interested in them.

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How To Know They're Not Interested Before Even Going On A Date

Unfortunately, not everyone is mature enough to simply say that they are not interested in you anymore. However, chances are they will display some of these hints...often before even going on your first date:

1) Texting on and off. When someone is interested in you, they're interested more than 2-3 days a week, and they let you know when they're busy.

2) You're contacting THEM most of the time. If they're rarely sending the first text or calling you up, they either think they're too cool for that and should go back to high school OR they're just not interested.

3) Always too busy when it comes time to plan a date. Sure some people work 50, even 60+ hours a week, but hey everyone has to eat right! If they can't even meet up with you for a quick bite or just a coffee, then they're clearly the type of person who only "has time" around 11pm at night for a quick lay, or they're just not interested.

4) They say something along the lines of "I don't really know what I'm looking for". This basically equals "I'm not that into you...but I'm still talking to you because maybe I'll be able to get laid" or "I know what I'm looking for and it's just not someone like you but I'm too coward to be straight forward."