7 Things Women Need To Stop Doing

Listen ladies, it's 2016 and sometimes as much as you want men to act a certain way, maybe you should also take a minute to think about how you should act as well.You can start by ending this type of BS:

1) Always expect the guy to make the first move. What would it change in your life to start the conversation for once? What would it change in your life to ask a guy out for once? Oh wait, I know: you'll stop waiting around for guys to ask you out and you will actually GO OUT on dates. Other than that, not much will change, so stop being afraid of making a move once in a while, it won't kill ya!

2) Always expect the guy to pay. People have very different opinions about this, especially with regards to first dates. However, I think most people would agree that women should also be offering to pay, and in the early stages of dating as well.

3) Expect romantic gestures without giving any yourself. So you always talk about chivalry being dead and all this crap, but what do YOU do for your man that's so special and romantic? Romance goes both ways and let me tell you that guys also enjoy having a weekend spa getaway planned for them.

Why You Need To Stop "The Chase"

I don't know how many times I have heard someone (guy or girl) say: "I just love the chase" or "I just always want someone I can't have" or "when the chase stops it's like I'm not interested anymore".
Ok 2 words: STOP NOW. Here's why:

1) The other person is not interested. When someone is actually into you, they don't play hide and go seek or any other stupid version of it. So, stop saying it's someone you "can't have", when it's simply someone who "doesn't want you", or at least doesn't want anything serious with you. I don't care how many "signs" they are giving you, get it in your head that it's never going to happen. Stop chasing, start replacing.

2) You look dumb and desperate. Why are you chasing after someone you "can't have". First, it's definitely not super attractive to them. Second, they're probably taking advantage of it because thats what people who play games do. Third, it just makes you look like a fool, because they are completely not interested so stop thinking otherwise.

3) If you "can't have" them, you can have way better. People who play these games of enjoying others chasing after them and playing hard to get are immature, and are definitely not gonna be the best BF or GF...

22 Original Dates That Don't Involve Alcohol

Alcohol and dating doesn't mix very well. It's important to get to know the person without the influence of anything else, and really see if you can connect without the help of a few bottles of wine. Here are some ideas of dates that are fun, affordable, and original, because always going for dinner and drinks can get real boring, real fast.

1) Zoo / Parc Safari. It's cheaper than a fancy dinner and definitely less awkward. You get to talk a lot without loud music in the background, and seeing animals is always cool no matter how old you are. Plus, you can show your romantic side by packing a cute little picnic.

2) Skating. Even in the summer, there are always indoor rinks. It's a fun activity and you can always go grab a bite to eat if you want to keep the date going.