7 Things Women Need To Stop Doing


Listen ladies, it's 2016 and sometimes as much as you want men to act a certain way, maybe you should also take a minute to think about how you should act as well.You can start by ending this type of BS:

1) Always expect the guy to make the first move. What would it change in your life to start the conversation for once? What would it change in your life to ask a guy out for once? Oh wait, I know: you'll stop waiting around for guys to ask you out and you will actually GO OUT on dates. Other than that, not much will change, so stop being afraid of making a move once in a while, it won't kill ya!

2) Always expect the guy to pay. People have very different opinions about this, especially with regards to first dates. However, I think most people would agree that women should also be offering to pay, and in the early stages of dating as well.

3) Expect romantic gestures without giving any yourself. So you always talk about chivalry being dead and all this crap, but what do YOU do for your man that's so special and romantic? Romance goes both ways and let me tell you that guys also enjoy having a weekend spa getaway planned for them.

4) Think that you have to play hard to get. No, this does not make you seem hard to get, guys are not dumb they know exactly what you are doing. And no, it's not going to achieve much in your dating life except make the good (and smart) guys walk right away..

5) Think that every guy only wants to sleep with you. Well if you still think that, then that's what you deserve...sorry not sorry.

6) Overthink text messages or social media posts. "Omg he didn't put a smiley face." "Omg he read the message but hasn't replied yet." "Omg he posted a picture and there's girls in it." OMG grow up and maybe spend more time WITH the guy instead of stalking him on social media.

7) Think it's creepy when a stranger compliments you and asks for your number. This drives me nuts. You all complain about how dating is not like it used to be and you can't meet anyone in person anymore, yet when a guy gets out of his comfort zone and makes the effort to approach you in person, your automatic reaction is to say that you have a boyfriend or give a fake number. How about you actually appreciate this gesture instead of finding it creepy? And even if the guy is not a perfect 10 in your eyes, at least give him a chance because he's got the balls to do something most men don't. And to all you guys who get rejected when doing this, please know that you deserve much better than an immature girl who finds you "creepy".